Being seen as you are, not an act of performance
How many more clothes do we need to buy to cover what is underneath? What needs to be worshiped and loved?
As part of the training around touch and body, I am happy to explore what works for you and what doesn't. For example, you were in a long-term relationship and now feel that the intimate side doesn't work, and you need to move on.
It causes it to be unable to define what works, adjust to others' needs, and put their own. It needs to be on hold.
Another aspect of this is showing off. You want to be seen as a sexual being but not to be involved.